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What is pallbearer?

By Karl-Gustav Kallasmaa

Published June 2025 · Updated January 2026

A pallbearer is one of the people who carry or escort the casket at a funeral, typically from the service to the hearse and to the graveside. Pallbearers are usually family members or close friends, and honorary pallbearers walk alongside without lifting.

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A casket is heavy — often well over 200 pounds with the body — so several pallbearers, frequently six, share the weight, three to a side. They typically carry it from the service to the hearse and from the hearse to the graveside, setting it on the lowering device. Honorary pallbearers are named as a mark of respect but do not physically carry the casket.

Serving as a pallbearer is widely considered an honor, and families usually choose people who were especially close to the person who died. If there are not enough able-bodied people, funeral homes can normally arrange staff to carry or assist, and many caskets travel most of the way on a wheeled church truck so the lifting is brief.

For an eligible veteran, the military can provide funeral honors that include a uniformed detail to carry or escort the casket, fold and present the burial flag, and play Taps. Families arrange this through the funeral director, who coordinates with the relevant military branch or the VA.

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